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The death I would prefer is…

Comfortable?
Easy?
Fast?
Painless?
At home?
In a hospital/facility?
Surrounded by loved ones?
Alone?
Cuddled up with your pet?
Hooked up to tubes and wires?
Free from tubes and wires?

The reality is everyone will eventually pass away. You can run from it as long as you want, but it eventually catches up with all of us. Fill in the blank with your answer and talk about what you want with your loved ones!

With St. Anthony’s Hospice care, we strive to provide exceptional end of life care that helps our patients keep their dignity even past death. Hospice care is not about death, it is about how you live! We want the caregiver and family to be involved in patient care and keep the patient where he/she wants to be- home. Hospice care is not a place, it is a philosophy of care. It treats the person, rather than the disease and manages the 5 types of pain- physical, emotional, psychological, financial, and spiritual. St. Anthony’s Hospice manages symptoms and controls pain to give our patients the highest quality of life for however long they are with us. Ensuring each patient has the highest quality of life allows them to share more moments and memories with loved ones and allows them to say everything they need to say.

Patients are not the only ones facing a terminal illness. Family and caregivers face it alongside the patient. St. Anthony’s Hospice helps families provide excellent care for their loved one by providing professionals who recognize the signs of pain and unmanaged symptoms and provide the necessary medical care to care for their loved one, without an unneeded trip to the emergency room or hospital.

Our nurses will fill pill planners, educate caregivers on how to administer medications, provide wound care, and educate on the disease process. Our aides will assist in bathing the patient, as well as any grooming or everyday needs the patient may have. Our chaplains and social workers will help you work through any stress or negative emotions you might have. Our social workers can even help with funeral arrangements and legal documents such as Powers of Attorney, Living Wills, Do Not Resuscitate orders, etc. We also offer bereavement services that go on for 15 months after your loved one passes away. We do not abandon the family after your loved one passes.

Hospice care does not mean you are giving up on your loved one. It is extra help to ensure your loved one is comfortable and both you and your loved one have all the help and support you need. With St. Anthony’s Hospice care, we believe the end of life is as precious and fragile as the beginning. Call us at (270) 826-2326 or make an online referral to see how hospice care can benefit you or a loved one.

 

 

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The Stress of Family Caregiving

Picture this.
You work full-time. You are caring for your spouse and children, cooking, cleaning house, taking kids to practice, etc. Now one of your elder family members gets diagnosed with a terminal illness and you step up to provide their care after work and on weekends. What free time do you have to do things that relax you?

Focusing on caring for a loved one is a great thing! It shows your loved one how much you love them and want to help them out when he/she needs it most. We actually have some tips on our Caregiver Corner page on our website. At the end of the webpage, there is a link to a booklet with helpful tips.

Family caregivers are incredible, yet they tend to neglect themselves. St. Anthony’s Hospice can help! When you have a loved one diagnosed with a terminal illness, you are doing everything you can to keep them safe and home. With hospice care, you have nurses, aides, chaplains, a nurse practitioner, and social workers who come to the home to ensure your loved one is taken care of, comfortable, and where they want to be. Read all about the benefits of hospice care here.

Also included in the hospice benefit is the Lucy Smith King Care Center. If you are caring for a loved one and going to a vacation, graduation, any other event, or just need a break, the hospice patient can transfer to the Care Center for up to 5 days of respite care. This gives you some time to tend to yourself and your household, without worrying about your loved one. He/she will stay at the Lucy Smith King Care Center and receive around-the-clock care from our expert staff. Also, we have volunteers who can come to the home and sit with your loved one and chat or do activities while you run some errands!

Taking care of a loved one shouldn’t mean neglecting yourself. With your loved one under St.  Anthony’s Hospice care, our goal is to keep you as involved in the care of your loved one as you want to be. Hospice care does not come in and take over everything; rather we support family caregivers by providing extra help to the patient and the caregiver. Call us today at (270) 826-2326 or make an online referral here.

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Stages of Heart Failure

Heart failure, sometimes known as congestive heart failure or CHF, is a chronic condition in which the heart doesn’t pump blood as well as it should. It can occur if the heart cannot pump blood or fill the chambers adequately. Certain conditions such as coronary artery disease or hypertension, will gradually leave your heart too weak or stiff to fill and pump as it should.

Not all cardiac conditions that lead to heart failure can be reversed. However, some treatments can improve the signs and symptoms of heart failure, which will help you live longer. Some lifestyle changes like regular exercise, reducing sodium in your diet, managing stress, and maintaining a healthy weight can improve heart health and quality of life. One way to prevent heart failure is to prevent and control conditions that directly lead to heart failure. These conditions include but are not limited to coronary artery disease, hypertension, diabetes, or obesity.

Symptoms of Heart Failure

You should see your doctor or call 9-1-1 if you think you are experiencing a heart attack. Please see your doctor to be checked for heart failure if you experience any of the following symptoms.

  • Shortness of breath, aka dyspnea, when exercising or lying down
  • Fatigue
  • Weakness
  • Swelling (aka edema) in your legs, ankle, and feet
  • Rapid/irregular heartbeat
  • Reduced ability to exercise
  • Persistent cough or wheeze with white or pink colored phlegm
  • Increase in urination at night
  • Abdominal swelling (ascites)
  • Rapid weight gain due to fluid retention
  • Lack of appetite
  • Nausea
  • Difficulty concentrating/decreased alertness
  • Sudden, severe shortness of breath and coughing up pink, foamy mucus
  • Chest pain, if your heart failure is caused by a heart attack

Stages of Heart Failure

There are four stages of heart failure 1, 2, 3, or 4. As heart failure progresses through the stages, a person’s survival rate for 5+ years decreases.

Stage 1 
Those in stage 1 do not yet have issues with the pumping function of their heart. However, they do have a high risk of developing heart failure due to presence of related conditions like those listed above. People in stage 1 don’t have issues with the structure of their heart or how their heart works. It is rare to experience symptoms in this stage of heart failure. But a person may have symptoms related to other cardiac conditions.

Stage 2
Those in stage 2 of heart failure begin to have a reduced pumping function from the heart. This can lead to an enlarged left ventricle. The left ventricle pumps the blood rich in oxygen through the aortic valve and into the rest of the body. This area builds up while trying to overcompensate for the reduction in pumping function. An enlarged left ventricle can also result from previous heart attack(s). Some people in stage 2 remain asymptomatic.

Stage 3 
In stage 3, people will begin to show some of the symptoms above. Most are currently undergoing treatment either before or during stage 3.  The symptoms usually appear in this stage due to problems with the pumping chamber of the heart (or left ventricle). The patient may benefit from a referral to palliative care for enhanced symptom management.

Stage 4 
People in stage 4 have advanced heart failure and exhibit symptoms even when at rest. This stage is severe and may require advanced, specialized treatment or hospice care, depending on the patient’s treatment plan.

 

Check out our previous post on how palliative care can benefit patients with heart failure here

If you or a loved one is in need of St. Anthony’s Palliative or Hospice Care, please call us at (270) 826-2326 or make an online referral

 

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End of Life Nutrition

Many physical changes take place to patients at the end of their life, one of the most noticeable is the lack of nutrition the patient requires. When someone is in the process of dying, he/she does not consume food or drink how he/she used to, or even at all. This is completely natural. Sometimes nothing sounds or tastes good, and sometimes the patient has cravings for certain foods. This is often one of the hardest symptoms for caregivers to accept since food is how we nourish the body and spend time with loved ones.

As the body slows down, it can no longer digest and process food the same way as it used to. Expect your loved one to lose weight as this happens. This does not mean the patient is hungry or being “starved” as they refuse nutrition.

 

Don’t waste your precious moments fighting with your loved one about food and drink; spend those precious moments with him/her! Let the patient guide you on their wishes. He/she will let you know when he/she is hungry or thirsty and if anything specific sounds good. Liquids are often preferred to solids. Sometimes these liquids need to be thickened to prevent aspiration. Small ice chips or frozen fruit juice or cut up popsicles may be refreshing! If the patient is able to swallow, small amounts of fluids given via syringe (without the needle) may be useful.

Sometimes the taste or smell of a familiar food, in small amounts, is comforting. If the patient loved pizza from a specific place, order it! If the patient wishes to have a bite, they may say so. If not, the smell alone will comfort them.

If the patient does not wish to eat, they will tell you if they can still speak. If the patient is no longer able to speak, they may cough, bite the utensil, clamp their mouth closed, turn their head away, or spit the food out to let you know they do not want to eat. Respect your loved one’s wishes and don’t force them to eat or drink. Forcing food and drink to them is not going to prolong their life; it will just cause unnecessary arguments and take away minutes or hours from time you would otherwise enjoy! Also, a patient may appear thirsty when close to death but they are unable to drink. In this situation, you will want to provide oral care to keep the mouth dampened and clean. Remember to shower your loved one with love and respect their wishes and enjoy your time with them.

If you have any questions about end of life care or know someone who might benefit from hospice services, please call St. Anthony’s Hospice at (270) 826-2326 or make an online referral.

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Getting Better with Hospice

Before hospice care can begin, a patient must meet the eligibility requirements set forth by the US Centers for Medicare and Medicaid Services (CMS). There is no specific number of symptoms for admission into hospice care. However, a patient must have a life-limiting illness that should the disease run its normal course, they have a life-expectancy of 6 months or less. Some additional general eligibility requirements for hospice care can be found on our website here. The goal of hospice care is to increase quality of life by controlling pain and symptoms associated with their disease, for the remainder of their life. Hospice does not prolong life nor does it hasten death.

With the increased symptom management and care hospice provides, some patients do improve! Early referrals to hospice care are so important for the patient to experience all benefits it has to offer. We wrote a blog post a few months ago that explores early hospice referrals; check it out here.

Sometimes, patients improve so much that they can no longer receive hospice care. In these cases, the patient is discharged and referred to St. Anthony’s Palliative Care.

Many people view hospice care as a death sentence. However, many people get better once their symptoms are properly managed!

What happens when a patient is discharged from St. Anthony’s Hospice? 

  • It is determined the patient has an extended prognosis of longer than 6 months to live.
  • It is the patient’s wish to stop hospice services.
  • The patient moves out of the hospice service area.
  • The patient is discharged for cause. In cases like this, the hospice medical director and care team determines the patient or caregiver is compromising the ability of the hospice to effectively provide care with disruptive, abusive, or obstructive behavior.

We make every effort to resolve issues before considering a discharge. However, if determined a discharge is needed, our Medical Director or the patient’s following physician will be consulted prior to discharging.

St. Anthony’s Hospice works with caregivers in advance of a discharge. We want our patients to have all the support and supplies needed for a smooth transition out of hospice care.

Can I return to St. Anthony’s Hospice care if I’m discharged?

If you are discharged from hospice care you can return to St. Anthony’s care once you meet the eligibility requirements again.

For more information or to refer yourself or a loved one to Hospice or Palliative Care, call us at (270) 826-2326 or make an online referral here.

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Healthcare Decisions Day 2021

For over 10 years, the day after Tax Day is National Healthcare Decisions Day. After getting your taxes filed, it’s usually a good idea to discuss the wishes of your family. From April 2020-April 2021, these decisions have looked a little different and the way we have been living has been really changed. How many Americans look at advance directives has taken more of a profound meaning.

With the impacts of COVID-19, you never know what is going to happen. Remember last January and February before COVID became so widespread? We all had plans for 2020; some awesome resolutions, weddings, graduations, proms, homecomings, big birthday parties, vacations, and so much more. Then COVID hit and hit hard. All plans came to a screeching halt. Stay at home orders were invoked, along with mask mandates. Unfortunately, many Americans contracted COVID and some never recovered and passed away. Many of those people passed away without advance directives in place, which left family members trying to honor wishes that were not communicated.

Having advance directives is certainly not a new idea, but COVID did force everyone to look at what they want at the end of life and talk about their wishes with loved ones. There are huge benefits to the patient and family by having advance directives in place prior to hospitalization. These can include peace of mind for the patient because they know they will get their wishes honored and peace of mind for the family knowing they don’t have to guess or worry in this stressful time. After a loved one becomes chronically ill or unable to speak, these advance directives will come in handy! Your wishes will be crystal clear to medical professionals and loved ones.

St. Anthony’s Hospice and Palliative care helps patients get their wishes in order! Not only do we have copies of the 5 Wishes booklet to help you get started (for free), we can also help witness and notarize your documents, as well as help you get in contact with an estate attorney to draft the documents for you. We also honor end of life wishes by allowing the patient to be at home and ensuring all patients will have the highest quality of life and are able to die with dignity.

Call us today at (270) 826-2326 or make an online referral to see how hospice or palliative care can help you.

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What is Palliative Care?

You can make a referral to palliative or hospice care by calling (270) 826-2326 or filling out this online form.

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Stages of Chronic Kidney Disease

Chronic Kidney Disease (or CKD) refers to lasting kidney damage that progressively worsens over time and all 5 stages of kidney damage. These stages range from very mild (stage 1) to complete kidney failure (stage 5) The stages of CKD are based on the kidney’s ability to filter waste and extra fluid from the bloodstream. In the early stages, a person’s kidneys can still filter waste but in the later stages, your kidneys will have to work harder to get rid of waste or may not be able to do so at all. Over 30million people in the United States are living with CKD. How your physician measures your kidney function is by the estimated glomerular filtration rate (or eGFR). The eGFR is a number based on your creatinine levels, which is a waste product in your blood.

While anyone can be diagnosed with CKD, some risk factors that increase your risk include:
1. Diabetes
2. High Blood Pressure
3. Heart Disease
4. Family History of CKD
5. Being African American, Hispanic, Native American, or Asian
6. Being over 60 years old

Understanding the different stages of CKD can help a patient be more educated on the disease process and make appropriate healthcare decisions. We wanted to help you learn more about this disease.

Stage 1
In stage 1 CKD, you have mild kidney damage and an eGFR of 90 or greater. Most of the time, this means your kidneys are healthy and functioning well but you do have other signs of kidney damage. These signs of kidney damage can include protein in your urine or actual physical damage to your kidneys. Some ways to slow the progression of CKD if you are in stage 1 include:
– Controlling your blood sugar if you are diabetic
– Control your blood pressure
– Maintain a healthy diet
– Don’t smoke/vape or use smokeless tobacco
– Strive for 30 minutes of exercise at least 5 days per week
– Maintain a healthy weight
– Talk to your doctor about medications or vitamins to help protect your kidney function
– Get an appointment with a kidney doctor, or nephrologist, even though you have a primary care provider

Stage 2
In stage 2 CKD, you have mild kidney damage an eGFR between 60%-89%. Most of the time, this means your kidneys are healthy and functioning well but you do have other signs of kidney damage. These signs of kidney damage can include protein in your urine or actual physical damage to your kidneys.

Some ways to slow the progression of CKD if you are in stage 2 include:
– Controlling your blood sugar if you are diabetic
– Control your blood pressure
– Maintain a healthy diet
– Don’t smoke/vape or use smokeless tobacco
– Strive for 30 minutes of exercise at least 5 days per week
– Maintain a healthy weight
– Talk to your doctor about medications or vitamins to help protect your kidney function
– Get an appointment with a kidney doctor, or nephrologist, even though you have a primary care provider

Stage 3
Stage 3 is split into 2 stages, Stage 3a and Stage 3b. In Stage 3a, you have an eGFR between 45%-59%. In Stage 3b means you have an eGFR between 30%-44%. This means there is some damage to your kidneys and they are not functioning as well as they should be.

Many people do not exhibit symptoms in Stage 3, but if you are exhibiting symptoms they can be:
– Swelling in the hands and/or feet
– Back pain
– Urinating more or less than normal

Also in Stage 3, a person is more likely to start having health complications as waste builds up in your body. These can include:
– High blood pressure
– Anemia, or a low number of red blood cells
– Bone disease related to hyperphosphatemia or high levels of phosphorus in the blood

To prevent Stage 3 CKD from progressing, you can:
– Control your blood sugar if diabetic
– Control your blood pressure
– Don’t smoke/vape or use smokeless tobacco
– Eat a healthy diet and meet with a dietitian
– Exercise for at least 30 minutes, 5 days per week
– Get to and maintain a healthy weight
– Visit a nephrologist in addition to your primary care provider
– Ask your physician about medications to control your blood pressure and those to improve kidney function

Stage 4
Stage 4 CKD means you have an eGFR between 15%-29%. This means your kidneys are moderately to severely damaged and not working as well as they should. Stage 4 is the last stage before kidney failure and should be taken very seriously. Stage 4 is where palliative care can benefit the patient!

Many people begin to exhibit symptoms in Stage 4, which can include:
– Swelling in the hands and/or feet
– Back pain
– Urinating more or less than normal

Also in Stage 4, you will likely have health complications as waste builds up in your body. These can include:
– High blood pressure
– Anemia, or a low number of red blood cells
– Bone disease related to hyperphosphatemia or high levels of phosphorus in the blood

To prevent your Stage 4 CKD from progressing to complete kidney failure, you should:
– Regularly see your nephrologist
– Meet with a dietitian to help with your healthy diet
– Regularly take blood pressure medications as prescribed by your doctor

In Stage 4 it is time to begin talking with your nephrologist about the starting dialysis or preparing for a kidney transplant.

Stage 5
Stage 5 CKD means you have an eGFR less than 15%. This means your kidneys are either getting very close to failure or they have completely failed. If your kidneys fail, waste will build up in your blood which makes you very ill. Stage 5 is where hospice or palliative can help!

Some of the symptoms of kidney failure include:
– Itching
– Muscle Cramps
– Nausea & vomiting
– Not feeling hungry
– Swollen hands and feet
– Back pain
– Urinating more or less than normal
– Trouble breathing
– Insomnia (or trouble sleeping)

Once your kidneys have failed, kidney transplantation or dialysis are your treatment options. However, should you choose quality of life, hospice can help! If you choose quality of life in tandem with your treatment, palliative care can help! A kidney transplant is when a donor kidney is taken and transplanted into your body. If you can find a living donor, you may be able to plan for a kidney transplant and palliative care earlier. Dialysis assists your body in removing excess water and waste from the blood when your kidneys can no longer do it themselves. Palliative care can be used in conjunction with a kidney transplant and/or dialysis.

Palliative Care and Chronic Kidney Disease
When a patient is facing late-stage kidney disease (stage 4 or 5), St. Anthony’s Palliative Care team can help to manage symptoms and bridge the gap between the patient and their physician/nephrologist by providing an extra set of eyes and ears in the home. Palliative care can also help the patient access additional resources and support in the community.

Our palliative care team helps patients match their care plan to their personal goals as the patient explores options from transplant to dialysis to comfort care only.

To learn more about St. Anthony’s Hospice or Palliative Care, please call us at (270) 826-2326 or make a referral online.

 

 

Resources for this article found here.

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Will Hospice Discontinue My Prescriptions?

One of the most common myths we hear is “hospice care takes away all your medicines!” This couldn’t be farther from the truth! When a patient is enrolled in hospice care, a review of their medications is one of the first things we do. This review ensures the patient is receiving the best combination of medications to control symptoms and help the patient reach his/her goals.

What does it mean to be overprescribed?
When a patient reaches that “terminal” stage of their serious illness, they have been receiving treatment for many components of their serious illness for a while.  In traditional medicine, with each new symptom or diagnosis or physician, a variety of new prescriptions are given. At times, this occurs without the physician being aware of medications that are already being taken, which can lead to the patient taking multiple medications that do the same thing or a combination being prescribed that have adverse reactions. Meaning the patient can be taking the same medication in different dosages or one medication is designed to help control swelling while another causes it!

This article from American Family Physician states “Adverse drug events occur in 15% or more of older patients presenting to [doctor] offices, hospitals, and extended care facilities.” This is roughly 1 in every 6 patients, which is 4x more than younger patients! Also,  1 in 6 older patients experiences an adverse drug event while in the hospital. 

St. Anthony’s Hospice performs a thorough medication review of all patients prescription and non-prescription medications. We do this by taking stock of all prescriptions the patient is taking and adjust them, add prescriptions, and subtract prescriptions as needed.

Goals of Care
Anytime a patient’s goals of care change, a medication review should be done. When a seriously ill patient shifts their goals to comfort care rather than curative care, it is natural that some medications are not longer applicable to the patient. For example, oral chemotherapy drugs are no longer beneficial to a hospice patient or some long-term cholesterol medications may no longer be necessary for quality of life. But other medications such as those that help stabilize blood sugar may continue. The patient’s interdisciplinary team works together with the St. Anthony’s Hospice medical directors and the patient’s primary care physician to design a care plan tailored to that patient’s specific needs.

Most importantly, the top goals of hospice care are quality of life and controlling pain and symptoms associated with the patient’s serious illness. There will be new medications prescribed to help meet the goals of hospice care. Prescription medications should be expected to change as the patient’s condition changes. For example, if a patient can no longer swallow, prescriptions will change from a pill to a liquid or may be discontinued altogether (if the medication no longer helps the patient achieve his/her goals).

The patient’s interdisciplinary team educates the family and caregiver not only on the disease process, but the medications prescribed to the patient and how to administer them. Medications related to the patient’s hospice diagnosis, durable medical equipment, and medical supplies are covered under the hospice Medicare benefit. This does not include over the counter medications such as Tylenol, etc.  If you have any questions about whether or not a prescription medication is covered under the patient’s hospice benefit, call us at (270) 826-2326 and we can help you.

If you or a loved one is in need of hospice or palliative care, please call us at (270) 826-2326 or make a referral here

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When Enough Is Enough

Have  you ever paid attention to how your provider talks about treatments and how much like war-talk there is?

Really think about it…
“We’re going to win this battle with cancer.”
“Let’s rally behind Aunt Sally for her battle with breast cancer.”
“The infection has infiltrated his kidneys.”
“She’s having a heart attack.”

Ultimately life is not a battle to be won; nobody comes out alive. But don’t think about it in a negative light. Life is a gift! A beautiful gift given to each and every one of us that allows us to make a difference. Using your senses to explore the world is a privilege.

For religious people, life does not just end at death. Some believe in reincarnation. Some believe in an eternal afterlife. Some believe we only continue to exist in memories. Regardless of the differences in beliefs, death is a mysterious part of life that nobody really knows what happens when that time comes.

How do you know when to switch from the “warfront” of traditional medicine to embracing what is to come and living out the remainder of your life with the best quality care?

Dying comes in stages- denial, anger, bargaining, depression, and acceptance. Not everyone experiences all 5 steps or  even in that order. If one of these steps has been a person’s mindset their entire life, there is a bigger chance they will go out that way. For example, if a person has been angry their whole life, they may approach death feeling angry. Same goes for denial, depression, bargaining, and acceptance.

Whatever the person’s mood or however close they are to accepting their inevitable fate, we always face the question, “when do I stop aggressive treatment? when do I shift to hospice care?” Shifting from fighting for a longer life to a fuller life is never easy but hospice care is there to help.

Nearing the end of life does not necessarily mean the patient is close to death. While hospice care is for patients with a life-limiting illness that should the illness run it’s normal course, the patient has a life expectancy of 6 months or less. A patient must meet hospice eligibility requirements set by the Centers for Medicare and Medicaid Services. You can see a list of general eligibility requirements here.

We’ve said it so many times, hospice does not hasten death! Rather, when a patient’s physical, psychological, spiritual, financial, and social symptoms are properly managed, a patient can live for much longer. If hospice care is started early in the disease process, a patient receives more benefits!

Beginning hospice care early in the terminal diagnosis, ensure all symptoms are expertly managed which improves quality of life and can even improve quantity of life. The patient receives care from nurses, aides, social workers, and chaplains in the location of their choosing. Many patients receive care in their own home or in an assisted living facility, skilled nursing facility, or the Lucy Smith King Care Center. Hospice care is considered to be the ideal model for the most compassionate, highest quality care for those nearing the end of life. It offers the services and support that most Americans want when facing a life-limiting illness.

Hospice care uses an interdisciplinary team approach. This means we treat the whole person, from their physical symptoms to psychological to social to spiritual, and everything in between. Hospice care allows patients to keep their current physician, should their physician choose to follow, and their current caregiver! We don’t force loved ones to stop caring for the hospice patient, we encourage them to continue and empower them by teaching valuable skills and educating on the disease and dying processes.

“Human beings are physical, psychological, spiritual, and social entities and ought not to be reduced to any one dimension. The notion of totality of a holistic approach to the person is critical in all dimensions of health care.” -Ron Hamel, Making Health Care Decisions.

When initially diagnosed with a life-limiting illness, our focus should be completely on curing the patient and/or defeating the disease. At this point, the patient should consider a palliative care referral. Visit our website here to learn about the difference in hospice and palliative care.

We should always have those “what ifs” in the back of our mind to be realistic.
“What if we get to a point where the treatments aren’t working?”
“What if my quality of life is really taking a hit with these treatments?”
Be prepared and pay attention to look for the signs that your quality of life is taking a hit. Check out an article on quality indicators for end of life care here. Or just think about it- can you tolerate more treatments without being sick or extremely weak? Do I feel up to doing things I have always loved like going out to eat, going on a walk, gardening, visiting with friends or family or pets, etc.?

Encourage your loved one to listen to that internal voice that says “I’m done” or “Enough is enough.” Once you hear that voice, it’s time to shift the focus from treating the disease to treating the person. Always remember, when you are told “there’s nothing more that can be done,” there is always more that can be done! Meaning it’s time to focus on quality of life!

A dying person is still a person. They can still hear, feel, love, cry, see, etc. They are just a person with a shorter life expectancy. Grant your loved one’s wishes. Go to the beach one last time. Take a boat ride. Go for a picnic in the park. Just sit and listen to stories about their life. Focus on increasing that quality of life! Even under St. Anthony’s Hospice care, we don’t limit you to being homebound. We help our patients honor their last wishes and travel. Now, that doesn’t mean we pay for it, but we do help find the help the patient needs. For example, if your loved one wants to go to Florida for vacation, we contact a hospice provider wherever you go in Florida to be sure the patient is still getting the quality care needed while traveling.

Hospice care is exceptional end of life care. It’s not admitting defeat or giving up. Hospice gives the patient the quality of life and dignity they so deserve.

If you know me personally, you know I’m a big Queen fan. I wanted to close this out with some lyrics from “Who Wants to Live Forever” that I think pertain really well to focusing on quality of life and not fearing death.
“Who wants to live forever
There’s no chance for us
It’s all decided for us
This world has only one sweet moment set aside for us
Who wants to live forever”
Our fate has already been decided for us. We aren’t promised another day, so many every day count.

If you or a loved one is in need of palliative or hospice care, please call us at (270) 826-2326 or make a referral here.

 

 

Sources for this blog post- https://www.bmj.com/content/bmj/291/6511/1820.full.pdf and
CareNotes “Hospice Care: When Enough is Enough” by Fr. Dick Sparks, C.S.P., Ph.D.

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